Is it love or infactuation? Or an idle whim?
Married 35 year old, free spirit. Been with the same guy for the last 10 years, we have a very erratic relationship, it is either really good, or really shitty.. No major in between. I love him yes, we have a lot of history and can have a lot of fun together, not so much recently. Years ago when I was teaching I met a student from Argentina 8 years youunger. We hit it off, had fun hung out etc strong attraction, major flirtation.One time before I was getitng married, we ended up kissing very intensley for a while, I pushed away, feeling such guilt to go further, knowing I loved my husband and respected him, so I stopped. He told me before the wedding see ya, distanced for a long while. I missed him, our talks, friendship, banter. We are chatting again about once a month, I have strong feelings when I get off the phone, but think this is silly it is just a fantasy, you can't be in love with two guys, but man I miss hm, I dream about him a lot, he asks me to visit etc.. I don't know what to do, as I feel the energy between us is undeniable..
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ur married and he's 8 years younger than you. this guy is just using u! stay with ur husband and ignore the temptations
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